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'wine; and Strephon, when he first thought of you, proposed to Damon to be his rival. The manner ' of his breaking of it to him, I was so placed at a 6 tavern, that I could not avoid hearing. "Damon,"

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'said he, with a deep sigh,' " I have long languished "for that miracle of beauty Gloriana, and if you will "be very stedfastly my rival, I shall certainly obtain "her. Do not," continued he,' " be offended at this "overture; for I go upon the knowledge of the tem66 per of the woman, rather than any vanity that I "should profit by an opposition of your pretensions to "those of your humble servant. Gloriana has very "good sense, a quick relish of the satisfactions of life, "and will not give herself, as the crowd of women "do, to the arms of a man to whom she is indifferent. "As she is a sensible woman, expressions of rapture "and adoration will not move her neither; but he "that has her must be the object of her desire, not "her pity. The way to this end I take to be, that a "man's general conduct should be agreeable, without "addressing in particular to the woman he loves. Now, "Sir, if you will be so kind as to sigh and die for Glc"riana, I will carry it with great respect towards her, "but seem void of any thoughts as a lover. By this 66 means I shall be in the most amiable light of which "I am capable; I shall be received with freedom, you "with reserve." Damon, who has himself no designs ' of marriage at all, easily fell into the scheme; and you may observe, that wherever you are, Damon appears also, You see he carries on an unaffected 'exactness in his dress and manner, and strives always to be the very contrary of Strephon. They have al'ready succeeded so far, that your eyes are ever in 'search of Strephon, and turn themselves of course 'from Damon. They meet and compare notes upon your carriage; and the letter which was brought to you the other day, was a contrivance to remark your resentment. When you saw the billet subscribed

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• Damon, and turned away with a scornful air, and • cried impertinence! you gave hopes to him that shuns you, without mortifying him that languishes for 'you.

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What I am concerned for, Madam, is, that in the disposal of your heart, you should know what you 6 are doing, and examine it before it is lost. Strephon 'contradicts you in discourse with the civility of one who has a value for you, but gives up nothing like 'one that loves you. This seeming unconcern gives 'his behaviour the advantage of sincerity, and insen'sibly obtains your good opinion, by appearing disin'terested in the purchase of it. If you watch these 'correspondents hereafter, you will find that Strephon 'makes his visit of civility immediately after Damon has tired you with one of love. Though you are very 'discreet, you will find it no easy matter to escape the toils so well laid, as when one studies to be disagreeable in passion, the other to be pleasing without it. All the turns of your temper are carefully watched, and their quick and faithful intelligence 'gives your lovers irresistible advantage. You will please, Madam, to be upon your guard, and take all 'the necessary precautions against one who is amiable to you before you know he is enamoured.

( I am,

• Madam,

Your most obedient servant.

Strephon makes great progress in this lady's good graces, for most women being actuated by some little spirit of pride and contradiction, he has the good effects of both those motives by this covert-way of courtship. He received a message yesterday from Damon in the following words, superscribed With speed.'

'ALL goes well; she is very angry at me, and 'I dare say hates me in earnest. It is a good time to visit.

'Yours.'

The comparison of Strephon's gaiety to Damon's languishment, strikes her imagination with a prospect of very agreeable hours with such a man as the former and abhorrence of the insipid prospect with one like the latter. To know when a lady is displeased with another, is to know the best time of advancing yourself. This method of two persons playing into each other's hand is so dangerous, that I cannot tell how a woman could be able to withstand such a siege. The condition of Gloriana, I am afraid, is irretrievable, for Strephon has had so many opportunities of pleasing without suspicion, that all which is left for her to do is to bring him, now she is advised, to an explanation of his passion, and beginning again, if she can conquer the kind sentiments she has already conceived for him. When one shews himself a creature to be avoided, the other proper to be fled to for succour, they have the whole woman between them, and can occasionally rebound her love and hatred from one to the other, in such a manner as to keep her at a distance from all the rest of the world, and cast lots for the conquest.

'N. B. I have many other secrets which concern the empire of love, but I consider that while I alarm my women, I instruct my men.' .

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No. CCCCXXIV. MONDAY, JULY 7.

Est Ulubris, animus si te non deficit æquus.

'Tis not the place disgust or pleasure brings:
From our own mind our satisfaction springs.

Mr. Spectator,

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London, June 24.

A MAN who has it in his power to choose his ' own company, would certainly be much to blame • should he not, to the best of his judgment, take such

as are of a temper most suitable to his own; and ' where that choice is wanting, or where a man is 'mistaken in his choice, and yet under a necessity of 'continuing in the same company, it will certainly be his interest to carry himself as easily as possible.

In this I am sensible I do but repeat what has been said a thousand times, at which however I think no body has any title to take exception, but they who never failed to put this in practice......Not to use any longer preface, this being the season of the year in which great numbers of all sorts of people retire from this place of business and pleasure to country • solitude, I think it not improper to advise them to take with them as great a stock of good humour as they can; for though a country life is described as the most pleasant of all others, and though it may in truth be so, yet it is so only to those who know how 'to enjoy leisure and retirement.

As for those who cannot live without the constant 'helps of business or company, let them consider, that in the country there is no Exchange, there are no • play-houses, no variety of coffee-houses, nor many of those other amusements, which serve here as so many reliefs from the repeated occurrences in their own families; but that there the greatest part of their time must be spent within themselves, and

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consequently it behoves them to consider how agree'able it will be to them before they leave this dear

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I remember, Mr. Spectator, we were very well en'tertained, last year, with the advices you gave us 'from Sir Roger's country-seat; which I the rather ' mention, because it is almost impossible not to live 'pleasantly, where the master of a family is such a one as you there describe your friend, who cannot therefore, I mean as to his domestic character, be 'too often recommended to the imitation of others. 'How amiable is that affability and benevolence with ' which he treats his neighbours, and every one, even 'the meanest of his own family! And yet how sel'dom imitated? instead of which we commonly meet 'with ill-natured expostulations, noise and chidings ........And this I hinted, because the humour and dis'position of the head, is what chiefly influences all the 'other parts of a family.

'An agreement and kind correspondence between 'friends and acquaintance, is the greatest pleasure of life. This is an undoubted truth, and yet any man 'who judges from the practice of the world, will be 'almost persuaded to believe the contrary; for how

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can we suppose people should be so industrious to 'make themselves uneasy? What can engage them 'to entertain and foment jealousies of one another upon every the least occasion? Yet so it is, there are 'people who, as it should seem, delight in being trou'blesome and vexatious, who, as Tully speaks, Mira 6 sunt alacritate ad litigandum, “ Have a certain cheer'fulness in wrangling." And thus it happens, that 'there are very few families in which there are not 'feuds and animosities, though it is every one's inte( rest, there more particularly, to avoid them, because there, as I would willingly hope, no one gives ano'ther uneasiness, without feeling some share of it.... But I am gone beyond what I designed, and had

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