him to be no member of their church, and no other- t wise a brother, than as every man is descended from one common father. t I make no doubt but that the Quakers have copied this piece of policy from the ladies: but as most coP pies are observed to fall short of the spirit of their originals, this industrious, prudent and opulent set of people will, I hope, excuse me, if I prefer a first and finished design to an imperfect imitation of it. IS a The Quakers have never, that I know of, excom-r municated a member for one single failure; nor upon frequent repetitions of it have they so driven him from the commerce of mankind, as to make him desperate in vice, or to kill him with despair. How nobly severe are the ladies to the apostates from purity! To be once frail, is forever to be infamous. A fall from virtue, however circumstanced, or however repented of, can admit of no extenuation. They look a upon the offender and the offence with equal detestation; and postpone business, nay, even pleasure itself, for the great duty of detraction, and for consigning to perpetual infamy a sister who has dishonoured them. This settled and unalterable hatred of impurity cannot be sufficiently admired, if it be considered how delicately the bosoms which harbour it are formed, and how easy it is to move them to pity and compassion in all other instances: especially if we add to this consideration, its having force enough to tear up by the roots those sincere and tender friendships, which all handsome women, in a state of virtue, are so well known to feel for one another. Nothing can so strongly convince me of the truth of these female friendships, as the arguments which shallow and superficial men have thought proper to bring against them. They tell us that no handsome woman ever said a civil thing of one as handsome as herself: but, on the contrary, that it is always the de S f ight of both to lessen the beauty and to detract from The reputations of each other. Admitting the accusation to be true, how easy it is o see through the good-natured disguise of this behaviour! These generous young creatures are so aprehensive for their companions, that they deny them eauty in order to secure them from the attempts of bertines. They know that the principal ornament ›› f beauty is virtue; and that without both a lady is eldom in danger of an obstinate pursuit: for which eason they very prudently deny her the possession If either. The lady thus obliged, is doing in return he same agreeable service to her beautiful acquaintnce; and is wondering what the men can see in such rifling creatures to be even tolerably civil to them. hus under the appearance of envy and ill-nature, hey maintain inviolable friendships, and live in a muFual intercourse of the kindest offices. Nay, to such pitch of enthusiasm have these friendships been ometimes carried, that I have known a lady to be nder no apprehensions for herself, though pursued y half the rakes in the town, who has absolutely ainted away at seeing one of these rakes only play-> ng with the fan of her handsome friend. The same discreet behaviour is observed by almost very lady in her affairs with a man. If she would xpress her approbation of him, the phrase is, "What? a ridiculous animal!" When approbation is grown to love, it is, "Lord, how I detest him!" But when she rises to a solemn declaration of, "I'll die ta thousand deaths rather than give him my consent," we are then sure that the settlements are rawing, or that she has packed up her cloaths, and htends leaping into his arms without any ceremony @hatsoever. There may possibly be cavillers at this behaviour asf the ladies, as well as unbelievers in female friend ship; but I dare venture to affirm that every man will honour them for their extraordinary civilities and good-humour to the seducers of their sex. Should a lady object to the company of such men, it would naturally be said that she suspected her own virtue and was conscious of carrying passions about her which were in danger of being kindled into flames by every spark of temptation. And this is the obvious reason why the ladies are so particularly obliging to these gentlemen both in public and private. Thos gentle souls, indeed, who have the purity of their se more at heart than the rest, may good-naturedly in tend to make converts of their betrayers; but I can not help thinking that the meetings upon these occa sions should be in the presence of a third person for men are sometimes so obstinate in their errors and are able to defend them with so much sophistry that for want of the interposition of this third per son, a lady may be so puzzled as to become a com vert to those very opinions which she came on pur pose to confute. It is very remarkable, that a lady so converted i extremely apt, in her own mind, to compassionat those deluded wretches, whom a little before she per secuted with so much rigour. But it is also to bẻ rẻ marked, that this softness in her nature is the onl consequence of her depravity: for while a lady com tinues" as she should be," it is impossible for her feel the least reproaches of pity for one who is othe wise. No. LIV. THURSDAY, JANUARY 10. Hoc novum est aucupium........... Omnia assentari. Is quæstus nunc est multo uberimus. PER. THAT an essay on hearers has not been given us by the writers of the last age, is to be accounted for from the same reasons that the ancients have left us no treatise on tobacconists or sugar-planters. The world is continually changing by the two great principles of revolution and discovery: as these produce novelty, they furnish the basis of our speculations. The pride of our ancestors distinguished them from the vulgar, by the dignity of taciturnity. If we consult old pictures, we shall find (suitable to the dress of the times) the beard cut, and the features composed to that gravity and solemnity of aspect, which was to denote wisdom and importance. In that admirable play of Ben Jonson's, which, through the capacity and industry of its reviver, has lately so well entertained the town, I mean, "Every man in his humour," a country squire sets up for high-breeding, by resolving to be "proud, melancholy and gentle"man-like.' In the man of birth or business, silence was the note of wisdom and distinction; and the haughty peeress then would no more vouchsafe to talk to her equals, than she will now to her inferiors. In those times, when talking was the province only of the vulgar or hireling, fools and jesters were the usual retainers in great families; but now, so total is the revolution, voices are become a mere drug, and will fetch no money at all, except in the single instance of an election. Riches, birth and honours, assert their privileges by the opposite quality to silence; insomuch, that many of the great estates and mansionhouses in this kingdom seem at present to be held by the tenure of perpetual talking. Fools and jesters must be useless in families, where the master is no more ashamed of exposing his wit at his table to his guests and servants, than his drunkenness to his constituents. This revolution has obtained so generally all over Europe, that at this day a little dwarf of the king of Poland, who creeps out after dinner from under the trees of the dessert, and utters impertinencies to every man at table, is talked of at other courts as a singularity. Happy was it for the poor talkers of those days that so great a revolution was brought about by degrees; for though I can conceive it easy enough to turn the writers at Constantinople into printers, and believe it possible to make a chimney-sweeper a miller, a tallow-chandler a perfumer, a gamester a politician, a fine-lady a stock-jobber, or a blockhead a connoisseur, I can have no idea of so strange a metamorphosis as that of a talker into a hearer. The hearers, however, have arisen in later times to answer in some degree the demand for them, is apparent from the numbers of them which are to be found in most families, under the various denominations of cousin, humble companion, chaplain, led-captain, toad-eater, &c. But though each of these characters frequently officiates in the post of hearer, it will be a great mistake, if a hearer should imagine he may ever interfere in any of their departments. When the toad-eater opens in praise of musty venison, or å greasy ragout; when the led-captain and chaplain commend pricket-wine, or any other liquors, such as the French call "Chasse-cousin," the hearer must submit to be poisoned with silence. When the cousin is appealed to for the length of a fox-chase, and out-lies his patron; when the squire of the fens declares he has no dirt near his house, and the cousin swears it is a hard gravel for five miles round; or |